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The old saying: "Give way to people, their way is new generous!" Living on the real life is only a few short years, where do not compete for high and low?
During the Qing dynasty in the reign of King Kangxi, there was a great scholar - a high-ranking official of that time named Truong Anh who was very fair and knowledgeable.
One day, Zhang received a letter from his hometown. The letter states that the family is currently on the ground for three masonry disputes with neighbors. The matter has been resolved for a long time, so that he would use his authority to resolve the dispute. If you win this case ...
Just read to that, Truong Anh burst into laughter and then used a pen to write a letter to his hometown. In the letter, he wrote two verses:
"Cultivating the gods of the wall, alienate the thirteenth.
Great Wall of China, no opinion of the Qin Shi Huang.
From thousands of miles to send a letter only because of a wall, give them three yards there? Where the Great Wall is where Qin Shi Huang is now.
Family members after receiving the letter, understand the idea that he wants to remind so that actively give the neighbors three yards. Unexpectedly, the neighbor saw that also actively give out three yards. Finally the two sides built walls back to three yards and the alleyway wide to six yards.
The story of "turning the war into silk" is handed down to this day.
Life is not the battlefield, where high competition?
When the heart is open a little, the will is much.
Between people, if you can understand each other a bit more misunderstanding will not.
If you can tolerate a little more, you will lose less.
Do not just use your eyes to see other people, comment on others, or judge something wrong.
Do not go over the other person to have the same views and do not force others to completely understand themselves.
Each person has his or her own personality and perspective. Because human beings always focus on themselves, consider themselves so new thinking more, new worry, loss and need someone else to explain themselves. Actually, take a little light, promote someone else a little happy new heart, enjoy.
The person who has more confidence then how much pleasure?
The person who gives up is not the loser, nor the weak one but the weak one who understands respect, knows how to go back, "step back a step wider sea. It is a kind of personality, a kind of intellectual and a kind of function!
The concubine is precious people! They know how to let go of their opinions, opinions and personal interests in a timely manner that pave the way for others. Let's not lose but win the hearts!
When you live a little more calm, more a little warmth, then life has more sunshine shining!
