I understand how you feel, not because i experienced it but because I have a sister who happened to be in that situation. I witnessed it all. How they hated her so much, condemned her to the maximum level. There was a time that my sister had been provoked to end her own life and with that young mind that I have on that time i wasn't able to do anything but cry and cover my ears to every killer words that comes out their mouth. Amazing it is how my sister survived those dramas and look at her now happy living together with her beautiful daughter who is now in college. What people say doesnt matter anymore, because it happened already and the best thing to do is to deal with it.