How To Make A Woman Happy

Hi!

As a beloved husband, i have few stories to tell as an experience. But first, we must give some thought to something: Woman and their definition of happiness.

As per my past experiences, i have never tried to make every will of my wife. I'm well awared of her fluctuation over her emotions, wills and desires. Her thoughts can change even in minutes. Hence, i learnt to keep a foot in both camps.

This makes sense in many of cases. For example, if she wants to buy some cosmetic products for exorbitant sum, i only nod and wait for her first excitement to pass. After waiting for some hours and dodge her first one or two attempts to reach a cosmetics shop, she forgets about that overpriced product and keeps standing happy. The strange part is she would have been happy if she buy that product. Knack is to know if she would be happier when she buy or odds are even. You can be sure i saved too much money with that way.

Here is the deal: What if she wants a pet? Can you elude from this with nod? Well, i can not elude from it for 8 months :) I just wait for her to go through a pet crisis and grumble for few hours. And let her search for beautiful pets and ask some prices, even make booking note for it. After 3-4 days and countless of "yes we do dear, yes we buy it, i want a pet too, wait till i regulate our financial status" etc. she delay her pet love until another crisis. Guess what, she keeps standing happy. She most probably be happier if we bought that puppy or kitten, but she is still happy. Wonderful!

Most of men would buy this puppy after 3 months. It's really exhausting to deal with a woman's desires. Women wants to make changes without changing their life standart. They want a puppy but they also want to stay at home after work. So it's probably be like that:

Me: "Honey, could you take our puppy out? He has to poop!"
Her: "I have really tired today. Children were too naughty today. My legs are aching. Could you please take him out?"
Me: "But i'm doing it since we bought him. And i'm also tired, i worked overtime dammit. Please take him out"
Her: "Aah, just let him poop at balcony. We can clean it later"
Me: "You mean i clean it and you sit exactly where you are"

Judgement sould be like: I don't want to have conversations like that. Especially when i work that much hard in work. So i don't buy any pets, simple. And she desperately consists on buying one. But she keeps standing happy if we don't. So i won't buy one until she makes me persuade that she is not happy.

Bottom line is that: You can easily make a woman happy. Just don't argue with her, wait until she despair. And never let a woman to change her life entirely. Because changing life would not be hers, it will be yours. Just take it easy let the river flow. She will be happy eventually.

I will write an example story about this soon.