Boy do I get what you are saying. I say
I'm allergic to doing dishes that chore makes me sneeze and my nose runs away. My back even hurts from the stance. That is why I rinse my dishes and stack them up for a once a week washing time. Here I am the only dish dirtier and thank God for all my dirty dishes. Love to you
Dirty dishes just means people are getting fed. If they wish to continue being fed, though, the dishes need to be done. Heard you loud and clear.
Much love and light,
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