That indeed was the thing I was looking at. It's so easy to 'blame' everything else, but never explained to me why someone who had grown up in a totally negative environment could be a gentle soul and someone who was nurtured in a loving environment would be an absolute bastard. These are 'not the norm' cases but still, it happens. I think in such a complex world we can forget that sometimes it's just how we have evolved - or not as the case may be :)
Thank you so much for reading and supporting my post.