Yes, a very good example! If you have an operation scar, you know that everything is connected :)

I suppose until things change in school life some water will still flow down the rivers. Systemics is on the advance, but it seems that there is a lack of systemists in the individual disciplines or that proving guilty is a really annoying and persistent habit, which will only be balanced out by permanent different behavior and examples. But this takes time and patience. In any case, only a few percent of the population are willing to change their attitude to life, but often this small part is sufficient to bring about change. I am optimistic, because it is much more fun to live out one's own creativity than to get angry.

I don't believe that we are inherently problem-focused and adrenaline-driven. I think it's a way of looking at things. Take an ordinary day. Nothing special happens, you do your work or follow the tasks, you usually try to cooperate. Only the failures and exceptions, in which cooperation does not succeed, seem to be in the majority. But I don't think they are. They just like to be exaggerated and claim attention: undeservedly. The quiet tones can be learned to pay attention and the boredom in which nothing special happens can be regarded as an ideal. Just a long while :) Without the ability to put aside one's egoism and concentrate on the well-being of others, we as a human species would probably not have survived that long... ? Unfortunately, we have very dangerous tools and very powerful weapons at our disposal that could spoil everything. Well, you have to be optimistic here too, I think. Everything else is just depressing and leads to fear of life, which in turn inhibits the good things.

Sometimes the aesthetic questions come spontaneously. But often I have to think about it. When I have someone in consultation, I often remain silent for a while before I say something. For example, because I don't know what to say right now. Sometimes there is a flash of inspiration. But often not. I do not train that enough. You're right, you have to be constantly aware that you have the possibility. But it's really very stress-reducing.

Thank you for your thoughts and comments, which I always find valuable and complementary.