Thank you @jonnyla08. It is a funny thing... though he is a close relative to my family members for me he is this kind fellow I met a few times in my life. Sort of... oh hey Aunt Kathy’s brother is coming over this year and then I wouldn’t see him again for a few years except via friendly facebook posts and comments. It’s just such a crap way to go out. My heart hurts for his kids, siblings and him.