i have to confess to a bit of a girly moment here i came back to read who else commented and its like 5 am here so i am only slightly awake anyway its good to have a good cry :) but my emotional instability aside thank you both of you, made my day, well when it begins i think when its this early it still counts as the night before doesnt it? so far i have read a conversation between damus, i think i know welshstacker was in there but it was summertooths comment i believe that got me that made me laugh til literally tears were rolling down my face :) and now i have read this and had a good cry not even morning and i have felt a rollercoaster of feelings, :) hope everyone does feel the love today hope i get my crying under control before the day starts, but mostly i hope i can find my daughters top i have no idea where its gone...much love to all ssg community