SCHOOL FOR PARENTS: Younger children need your help to cope with their emotions.

Emotions govern our lives. However, to take control of them, you must learn to recognize them. For example, if you learn to trust strange bodily sensations, you can avoid a bad situation.

SourceEarly emotional experiences help children understand their feelings. If you encourage joy in your child, it becomes part of your personality.

If you respect the child's emotions as their unique characteristics, this will contribute to their development and teach them to respect their emotions. If the parents ignore the emotions of the child, thinking that this will help him to control, and also teach him to suppress the feelings, the child does not sufficiently develop his emotional intelligence.

Parents of preschoolers should be especially sensitive to the emotional needs of their children and understand that excessive experiences can harm them.

Studies show that intense experiences are detrimental to the developing brain and cause a disorder called "acute stress response," which negatively affects a child's social development.

Since the child's nervous system is constantly evolving, it is almost impossible to notice that the experiences affect his development.

Parents are somewhat similar to orchestra directors. By their attitude toward the child, they can weaken or strengthen their emotions. If the adults do not follow the interests of the child, but they bother him regularly, he becomes anxious.

SourceChildren can not, independently, without the help of adults, control their emotional manifestations. Parents should teach the child to calm their emotions. The younger the child is, the more help he needs.

This does not mean that parents simply need to punish the child for his bad behavior, "so that he behaves well." No, the child's development is different. By punishing him, you will only suppress his development.

So, what do adults do to calm a child?

SourceOur children grow up in a society where relationships are based on the ability to respond. It has evolved over many centuries. Society has always supported mothers and their children. The children developed well, feeling affectionate.

If the parents were busy with something, there was always someone close to whom the child could go for help. Nowadays in many developed countries, this tradition is broken.

From the development point of view, modern children suffer from a lack of public support. Strengthens the child's sense of belonging and inspires confidence in the world around him.

But what can adults do in modern conditions?

The child can not ask for help from a stranger's shop. But he can be consoled indirectly. A suffering child needs someone to be with him.

SourceIf you have witnessed a situation like this, you can help. First, contact the child's mother and tell her what the child is worried about and wants to calm him down. Once approved, tell the child in a calm voice: "Everything is fine and everything will be fine".

Then, go back to the mother and explain what the child feels: "The child will not be able to calm down without his help. Reassure him. It feels abandoned. Your communication and your touch will help you calm down."

In general, parents who can not cope with a crying child hear this advice and begin to behave differently. In general, they positively perceive the news that their child is still very young and needs love and attention.

But, if the parents do not follow their advice, it may reflect what they say, for example: "I understand, you are upset about your child's behavior", "I understand, this is not my problem", but at the same time express your concern . about the feelings of the child. In one way or another, the child will not feel alone in this situation.

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