SCHOOL FOR PARENTS: How does discipline work in children under two years of age?
"Discipline is good and necessary, without which healthy and winning children do not grow up, it is necessary to teach and train children for the future life in our complex world, if everything is done correctly, discipline helps the child when he is young. to obtain internal control and independence.
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Discipline can be taught with kindness and discretion. First, they must provide the opportunity to spend their irrepressible energy, small children move without stopping. The main thing is to explain the rules that are current in your family and that you should observe. For example, you say clearly: "You can not touch this." If you are sure that this was said and that you understood what is in question, then you have every reason to demand compliance with this rule. Of course, if possible, it is best to eliminate any object within your reach that could be dangerous to your life.
However, it is not necessary to exaggerate compliance with the exact rules of a child under seven months, regardless of the various circumstances and their behavior. Many parents do not agree with this and are ready to whip a six-month-old baby by crying in the middle of the night or spinning around while changing clothes. This is a serious mistake.
The baby can not realize his "bad behavior" or establish a connection between him and the resulting punishment. In the first months of life, you need support, love and, most importantly, you need to hear the soothing sound of a human voice. You must feed when you are hungry, keep it dry, clean and warm. There is a possibility that the basis of a person's physical and emotional health will be established during the first six months of life.
It is normal for parents to feel very nervous and desperate when their child cries.
A friend told me she does not know what to do, because her baby cries as soon as she lays her in bed. The pediatrician who looks at her says that she is healthy and cries simply because she wants to be in his arms all the time. What should I do to make the child more calm?Crying in children is an important way to connect with others. The child's tears give parents the opportunity to know that they are hungry, tired, experiencing some inconvenience or that their stomach hurts. Therefore, it is so important to listen to these calls for help and be able to interpret them correctly. On the other hand, your pediatrician is right. It can make the child nervous and demanding, running towards him all the time and holding him right there in his arms, as soon as he squeals or sighs at least once. Babies are quite capable of learning how to manipulate parents with the help of the reinforcement method.
It consists in the fact that the child will reproduce any form of behavior accessible to the child that allows achieving the desired result, regardless of the reasons for such behavior.
For example, a healthy child can have his mother jump around him twelve hours a day and make his vocal cords tighten regularly. To avoid such consequences, the mother must establish the line between the situation, which forces the child to ask for the necessary attention and to become a small dictator.
Do not be afraid to let your son or daughter scream for a reasonable time (it is even thought to be useful for the lungs). Most mothers over time perceive the difference perfectly between the need of the child and the child dictator.
A method that works: before reaching the cradle of your son or daughter, rest for five minutes at the door of the room, stay out of sight and wait a moment of calm in his lament. In doing so, you are trying to find an effective way of behaving, to understand not only tears, but also a break in crying.
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