Very true. Pretence takes a lot of work. You have to make sure your don't make mistakes in your story, you don't break character... Men that's hard work. Be yourself.

At the end, it is the people who accept you for who you are, who really want your best interests. There are the true friends. No one should pretend to be who or what they are not. It can only take one so far before he or she is caught.

Very educative story there @hopehuggs