Wooow, that was beautiful @jeezzle. I agree totally with you when you say that being nice is not a trait. I believe that, people can actually learn to be nice . Human beings, I believe are generally nice in nature, but sometimes, our environment may affect the way we respond to things and other people. If a person was brought up in a nice, caring and loving family, chances are, they are most likely going to be nice people. But as I said, we can learn to be nice. Thanks for sharing.
Our environment definitely affects us.
You don't have to let your environment completely control you though. Being nice is definitely something that can be learned.