When Your Child Does Not Like You / Ketika Anak Anda Tidak Mirip Dengan Anda
If you have a pretty face and your husband's handsome-faced, but when your child is born-faced ugly and not similar to you or your husband at all, his error?
(pict: me and my Son 4th Khairul Azzam)
Many of the misunderstandings that occur on married couples whenchildren born is not similar to them, sometimes the husband blames the wife having an affair.
Children born from you can not necessarily be similar to you, could also be similar to your husband, if the child is also not similar to your husband, it is not an error, because basically children of married couples looking handsome could have born with a facial. All depends ongenetics who inherited the boy.
For example, there is a child who was born with a high nose, but when his father and mother both have live a pug and large. It could be ahigh nose were Taken from the genetics or grandfather anyone fromboth sides of the family did have a high nose genetics.
So, if in her body more then mancunglah, his grandfather's genetic child.
Many aspects affect the hardness, "inherited" the little one from hismother. Don't immediately expect to be born beautiful or handsome, because both parents were awarded a charming face. Because, all of that will not be so if during his father's mother or conceived, not concern for the nutritional intake for a child in the womb.
You and your husband's saucy, white and have a body high, but overin the child's womb is not getting sufficient nutrition intake, even sesuadah lagirpun children are malnourished, then do not if her son become short and small.
If the child's nutrition less while still in the bladder, it is not the only influential when the baby is still in the womb, gisi obtained for babiesstill in the womb also has important role to grow after birth.
Create a married couples who will soon have a child, don't be surprised if children born later don't match expectations.
As a parent you expect high-nosed children because you are high. Please check on your family genetics. Who knows Your mother and father thus inherited genes nosed, later gene was inherited to your child.
If your child is not equal with the father of his mother, his genetics checks only, do not blame each other, because it's still your child.
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Jika Anda Mempunyai wajah cantik dan Suami anda berwajah ganteng, tetapi ketika anak anda lahir berwajah jelek dan tidak mirip dengan anda atau suami anda sama sekali, dimana kesalahannya?
Banyak kesalahpahaman yang terjadi pada pasangan suami istri ketika anak yang lahir tidak mirip dengan mereka, terkadang suami menyalahkan isterinya berselingkuh.
Anak yang lahir dari anda tidak serta merta bisa mirip dengan anda, bisa juga akan mirip suami anda, jika anak tersebut juga tidak mirip dengan suami anda, itu bukanlah suatu kesalahan, karena pada dasarnya anak dari pasangan suami istri berparas rupawan bisa saja lahir dengan wajah yang biasa saja. Semua tergantung dari genetika siapa yang diwarisi anak itu.
Misal, ada seorang anak yang terlahir dengan hidung mancung, padahal padahal ibu dan bapaknya sama-sama memiliki hidup yang pesek dan besar. Bisa jadi hidung yang mancung itu dibawa dari genetika sang kakek atau siapa saja dari keluarga kedua belah pihak yang memang punya genetika hidung mancung. Jadi, Kalau di tubuhnya lebih banyak genetik kakeknya, maka mancunglah anak tersebut.
Banyak aspek turut memengaruhi "warisan" yang didapat si Kecil dari ibu bapaknya. Jangan langsung berharap anak akan terlahir cantik atau ganteng, karena kedua orangtua dianugerahi wajah menawan. Sebab, semua itu tidak akan jadi kalau selama mengandung, ibu atau ayahnya tidak mempedulikan asupan gizi selama anak di dalam rahim.
Anda dan suami anda cakep, putih dan punya tubuh tinggi, tetapi selama didalam kandungan anak tersebut tidak mendapatkan asupan gizi yang cukup, bahkan sesuadah lagirpun anak tersebut kekurangan gizi, maka jangan jika anaknya menjadi pendek dan kecil.
Jika gizi anak tersebut kurang ketika masih di dalam kandung, itu bukan hanya berpengaruh ketika bayi tersebut masih di dalam kandungan, gisi yang didapatkan selama bayi tersebut masih di dalam kandungan juga berpengaruh tumbuh kembangnya setelah lahir.
Buat pasangan suami istri yang sebentar lagi akan memiliki anak, jangan terkejut seandainya anak yang lahir nanti tidak sesuai harapan.
Anda sebagai orangtua berharap anak berhidung mancung lantaran Anda mancung. Coba cek genetika di keluarga Anda. Siapa tahu ibu dan bapak Anda justru diwarisi gen hidung pesek, yang kemudian gen itu diwarisi ke anak Anda.