Patience Facing Naughty Children
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I often find parents scolding their children. Father or mother is often emotional when she finds her child making mistakes. They do not know the bad effects that occur to children when they are often scolded. This problem can not be underestimated. Scourging, harsh words, insults or the like can be fatal.
Based on several studies mentioned that snapping children will destroy 1 billion brain cells of children right then and there. A spanking or pinch will kill billions of brain cells right then and there. However, with one compliment, warm hugs, and affection will grow the seeds of intelligence.
As the researchers revealed, Lise Gliot, a loud scream from parents can damage the brain cells of a growing child. When a child is horrified, a wonderful series of brain cells instantly balloon like a balloon, then the balloon breaks apart. Afterwards there was a change of color in brain cells.
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When parents often scold their children, even with uncontrollable emotions, this can damage the child's own brain structure. So, be careful in the face of children, even the recalcitrant child who often make mistakes. Scolding a child is not a good way to educate.
It is important for parents to get used to being nice and talking well. Good attitude and sweet talk the child's head, will make the child imitate the way his parents. Even if the child makes a mistake, do not scold it, but the error is straightened out. Teach children how it should be done right.
If the child is still bad also his behavior, still never be rude. Parents should not give up quickly, but keep trying to straighten out their mistakes in a good way, that is to advise them wisely. Gentle attitude and speech will cultivate understanding and awareness. Every now and again, there is a need for assertiveness that is not suppressing, but by raising awareness to the child to understand his duties and responsibilities.
Totally agree.
Naturally, Children seek approval so when they make a mistake, they are often openly willing to learn from it...
They have no idea of the stresses experienced by their parents, so scolding them just because one is frustrated or stressed, is really counterproductive.
On the other hand, teaching something or correcting a kid who made a mistake can be an escape for adults from the stress of their daily lives: It is like forgetting the tiring superficial and recharging with the fulfilling important.
Thank you for your response. Many parents should understand this. educating with violence will only end badly. Hopefully there will be changes in the coming days.
In the coming days? hummm.
it might take a little more than that, but hopefully humans will come around and evolve...
It can not be that fast. But awareness does have to be built :)
Steady..vote back ya
OK. Thank's.
No school to enter to be great parents, every situation count, every action matter. Just walk together and be a good companion to each and every child we have.
Sure. Thank's.