What if the teacher fell in love with their student?

Love is a very common thing in humans. Anyone can fall in love with anyone. A farmer can fall in love with a flight attendant. A fisherman can fall in love with a beautiful pilot. Love does not look at work and caste. Love is love.

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In the world of love education is also inseparable. At school there could be a love story between a teacher or a love story between the principal and the gardener. Love can be present anywhere. A younger sibling can fall in love with a class sister and vice versa.

Well, what if there are teachers who fall in love with their students? What to do? Here are some things to consider if a teacher feels in love with his students.

Make sure it's love or not

Man has so many feelings. There are feelings of love, admiration, shyness and love. If as a teacher you feel in love with your students then make sure first whether it is love or just love.

Keep distance to

Love is not wrong but lust is the wrong thing. If you feel really in love with your students then you should keep your distance. In some countries, dating minors is unlawful. You must be aware of the position as a teacher.

Wait for

Love between teacher and student usually occurs in high school. In this case a young teacher with a final grade student could fall in love. But as much as any student he remains a child of school. There is still an age limit. If you feel really love then wait until he grew up. In some countries like Indonesia, marriage between pupils and teachers is a natural thing. Provided that the student has really grown up.

Control

As a teacher educator must have a laudable attitude. Teachers must maintain their attitude in front of their students. Do not use the teacher's position to satisfy your desires. Control yourself and hornatilah work as educators and respect the meaning of love.

Love is a very difficult thing to guess. Love can be present anywhere and with anyone. But everyone should be wise in addressing the love. For me a teacher who falls in love with his students is reasonable as long as the teacher can maintain attitude.

Regards,
M. Fajarli Iqbal
Author and Educator