Movies, Sex and Laughter: What We Learn On A Snow Day?
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If you are going to be a teacher in this day and age you have to be willing to show the kids you are human and sometimes you have to be able to laugh at yourself. All too often teachers and students are disconnected because there is an inability to relate. The historical relationship between teacher and student that equates to the authority figure and subordinates is a trap that can be easily fallen into. Each teacher has a style that works for them and I knew right away that I wanted to have a classroom built on understanding and trust. A place where student felt free to express themselves and discussion fostered learning, not only academically but socially and emotionally as well. I like to have fun with my students and I always try to connect with them on their level. This is a story about a connection gone wrong!! Oh so wrong!!!
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So on one particular snow day, we were missing a few more students than normal so we decided to put two grade 7 classes together. When the students arrived at my class I greeted them and started to go through the plans for the afternoon as I always do. Now, I like to think that I am “in touch” with the pre-teen scene and have a good idea of what is “cool” these days. This was one of those moments where I decided to show my students just how cool I was. A big mistake in retrospect. A highly entertaining big mistake.
I had decided that we would work on some catch-up stuff for a little bit and then I would put on a film in the afternoon for the kids if they were working hard. I proceeded to tell my students that we would work on our book reviews and independent poems for the first half of class and then we could choose a movie on Netflix to watch during the remainder of the afternoon. The students were pretty happy with the plan. Their enthusiasm caused the inner cool in me to take over and I followed my description up with the following statement. “So, should be a fun afternoon here guys, be productive for the first half of class and then we can Netflix and Chill.”
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Now, some of you reading already know the error of my ways and can visualize the embarrassment I must have felt. For those of you who are still wondering, I will continue. As the kids got to work on their projects I took a quick moment to go to my computer and do a google search on “Netflix and Chill”. Imagine the shock and horror that filled me as I read the first thing that popped up.
Netflix and chill is an internet slang term used either as an invitation to watch Netflix together or as a euphemism for some form of sex, either as part of a romantic partnership or as a "booty call".
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By: @broncofan99
This is hilarious! It is so hard to keep up with the slang.
Oh no! Did I say "hard"?!
And "keep up"?
It's impossible to say anything in front of teenagers. LOL
Yeah, and when I tell the kids we have to be quick because I have to go out on “duty” they all giggle. The best might be in gym. You have to be so careful not to say “hold your balls” when getting them to stop an activity. Hahahaha
You are exactly the kind of teacher that would have drawn me out of my shell as a kid. I love the humility in this story.
Thanks, I figure that it would be ridiculous of me to expect my students to have some humility if I am unable to demonstrate it myself. If we can’t laugh at ourselves then we are going to spend a lot of time worrying about everything we do and how people might react. It was totally embarrassing though. Lol
You handled it so well though. Teacher's are our most important role models next to immediate family. A good teacher can change a life.
Thanks!! I really appreciate that.