DO WOMEN DESERVES TO BE TERRORIZED? by @bollutech

While sitting behind my computer on a gloomy afternoon, I wondereded why do women prefer guys who doesesn't treat them well? We complain that guys nowadays does es not know how to treat women with respect, but those that respect them are ofose that respect them are often friend--zonde.

Let’s be honest with you with you, the friend--zone sucks. We’ve been there before! Personally, I have been -fridend-zoned more than I care to admit and have I have I have friend--zoned people as well. It’s a a normal human behavior but when it is is too muc, it becomes a reproach and uncharacteristic to/of human.h, it becomes a reproach and uncharacteristic to/of human. Good and genuine men and women end up being friend--zoned while the ones we obsesseded over are the ones who are trouble/bad figures and intolerable partners/bad figures and intolerable partners.

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Last night, I was watching FOX TV show EMPIRE, while trying very hard not to fall asleep. At 12:30 in the midnight, I received a text from my friend--zonedd friend, informing me, informing me that she really need my help. I felt reluctant because the movie is getting me gaga, but I had to answer her because she deserves the best.
I called back to know the status of things she wanted to discuss with me.

I was emotionally moved when I heard her crying while speaking with me on the phone, she told me what she has been passing through lately. I tried my best to console her and eventually told her to chat with me.
She did, she texted me immediately I came online with the words, "When you're hurt and nobody could understand you, what are you going to do?"
I was unable to say a word,, but I I wanted to know the reason behind her cries.
she felt ashamed for friend--zoing me at first,, she later openeded up to me and shared me what had really happened.

There was this man whom she loved so much, yeagoago. They have been in this relationship for years and she has sacrificed so many things to the relationship, her thought was that, will lead to her marriage. After monthsly period of dating and having their privacy - having affairs, - having affairs, she couldn't see her monthly period on her day. She was afraid because she never expected such to send a camera shot of perhaps she haven't experienced such before.
She called her man to tell him about her missing period because she was afraid. She was told to send a camera shot of her breasts and send to him for him to know if there's any sign/development through her breasts, she did exactly what she was told by her man because of the love and trust she had in him.

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Unfortunately, her man was unable to solve the problem for her rather he assured her that there won't be any problem and if possible she was really pregnant, they will abort it. She disagreed at first, unfortunately, she had no choice than to agreebecause no one must know, even her parents must not know, so she unfortunately succumbed.

However, weeks after this experience of being unhappy, miserable and melancholy, she saw her period on a lonely day. Speriod on a lonely day. She wanted to believe she was dreaming,, perhaps someone will wake her up from her dreams but no one did.

She confusedly gathered courage to visit an hospital to confirm her health/pregnancy status. The test results shows that she wasn't pregnant. When she complained, she was told such things happens to women at times.
She was glad and determined to break up with her man because she was afraid of getting pregnant before she graduates from her University. Both of them parted ways to continue their life.

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After years of departing, this man came back for her asking for her privacy, threatening her to comply/cooperate/cooperate with him or else, he will make her privtete pictures/nude images/nude images go viral on many social platforms. I felt ashamed of myself, because this man has disgraced men in general.
I asked myself, what was her fault?
Falling in love or giving her body/nude images?

I was unable to sleep because I felt uncomfortable with the air as at that moment, I wish I could see the man and tear him into pieces because of the woman which he'd molested, mistreated ,hurt and threatened,, whichis against the law.

As an Advocate for Women's Rights, I decided to give him a call and explain things to him. He cooperated with me and apologized for the inconvenience he has caused the woman.

However, i got to know that his aim was to lure her into another lifestyle with him,, using the picture to threaten her if she didn't comply to his wish.

So, the question to everyone is that;

• Do men needs to threaten woman to get them on bed or into relationships?

Women has to be treated well, they are wonderfully made to be cared for not to be molested nor hurt.
Women remember every nice thing you do or say in the same way they remember every pitiless thing.

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When you are good to a woman — even if it ends for whatever reason — she will always remember you. You may never know that, but she will. She will think about the way you made her laugh or the way you dried her tears. She will remember the way she could speak wiwith you for hours. She will remember that you made her feel like a woman, that even when she was wrong, you still made her feel like a womanand you'll be seen as the perfect man for her friends. You will be the standard for all of the men and you'll be seen as the perfect man for her friends. You are the man whose shoes no one is yet to outshine. Continue to be that man because there is a woman who is going to adore you and appreciate you for everything you are worth.

So you have an option. Treat your woman rightly or don't. When you end up alone and can't figure out what the matter is/was, just remember that woman whose heart you shattered.

Thank you so much for your time,

Your boy Williams

@bollutech