How to make sure you are a good leader - Tips for kids
You can be chosen to be a leader at your school or at your church or even one day at the job you will do. Sometimes we do not get chosen but we can still be a good leader even if it is just among your friends.
To have a badge or title that says you are a 'leader' does not mean you are automatically a good leader. Some countries have leaders that are not good and they do not consider other people.
Lets have a look at the characteristics of a good leader.
A simple definition is that leadership is the art of motivating a group of people to act towards achieving a common goal.
It is so easy for people to talk about 'leadership' but a lot of people think that being a leader means you have to be the 'boss' and other people must just do what you say. That is not true.
To be a good leader you have to set an example and give respect to others in the same way you would like to get it from others. You will also have followers if you are a good leader and people will trust you.
You must have 'integrity'. That means you will do what you promise. You are not only going to say what you think will make people happy, but you will also act on it. You will tell the truth as far as possible and you will not change your mind after you have decided to do something.
You must be able to listen to other people and really hear what they are saying. Even if people are saying bad things about you, still listen, because maybe there is something you can make better for them or help them with. You need to be able to make the final decision, but it is a good idea to also listen to different inputs from others.
It is not enough to just listen to what others have to say, you also need to understand 'where they are coming from' and why they believe in something specifically and why they feel the way they do. Try to place yourself in their position and think how you would have reacted.
If you are a good leader you will not make people feel bad about themselves but you will help them and lift them up and give them the courage to believe in themselves.
You need to have enough faith in the people around you that you can also trust them to do what you have asked them to do, but do not just tell them what to do, sometimes you need to show them.
You need to understand that to be a leader is not all about 'glamour' and people listening to you and do whatever you say, it is about 'leading' and setting a good example.
Be proud enough of yourself that you will be able to be proud of others to and help them when they need it.
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This post good for the youth of today and the younger ones but not useful for elderly ones especially those in political in my country.. They are not good leaders as we expect.. Thanks for this post..
Yes maybe because they were never taught this when they were young
Being a leader is very often a natural thing for kids and sometimes a choice. I have had many students over the years who are leaders by example. They don’t even realize that they are leaders. These kids are always setting the standard for others to strive for, they are helpful and motivated and want the people around them to be successful. Other students look to them for validation. The n there are those students who frustrate me the most. These are the students who have the potential to be leaders in the class and they don’t siege the opportunity. These kids already have the ears of the other students and they are naturally “leaders” but the choose to use that power in a negative way. I have a student right now who could be so much more, yet he is often getting into trouble and having issues with others because of his poor choices.
That is too bad about the student who makes poor choices. I also work with many people who are naturally talented when it comes to being a leader and they don’t seize the talents that they have. It is very frustrating indeed. But not everyone wants to be a leader and some people take longer to realize their talents than others. @swt3df1
I have found many times in my class if you give the 'negative' leaders the chance to be a leader he/she will change and be a good influence on the others that follow them, but I agree it can be frustrating to see a child that has so much potential not use it for good.
A very good post. Leaders lead by example. Not by just telling others what to do although leaders may be called upon to assign work. They must be polite and understanding in their approach. @swt3df1
Good job, and great work.
well post dear @anneke keep going......👌👌