Balancing Romance and Spirituality Without Losing At Both Side.

(1) Being spiritual is one thing, being romantic is another.
One should not take the place of the other in marriage.
Both are essential, necessary and needed for a successful family life.

(2) A lot had been said about romance. But just for knowledge i will just say little of what it was said romance to mean. It is eros rather than agape, philia, or storage. In the context of romantic love relationships, romance usually implies an expression of one's strong romantic love, or one's deep and strong emotional desires to connect with another person intimately or romantically.

(3) Romance is not so much about a one-time show of appreciation, acknowledgement or affection, it's about small everyday displays of love.

(4) Well whatever way it. said or define i believe the best definition on romance is the one given to you by your spouse. I had been in a situation that wife said i am not romantic and i had thought i was.

(5) if you’re a woman, of course, you were born with an innate knowledge of this stuff…” This is stereotyping, but let us not be distracted. So even women, “born with innate knowledge” of romance, cannot define romance, but they know it when they see it.

(6) Do not forget, it varies from spouse to spouse. So ask your wife to define, romance for you. Simply put, romance is what your wife/husband say it is.

(6) After speaking in tongues, make sure you speak to each other. This “speaking” is important and should be perpetual. Toasting should not end on the wedding day, in fact it should just begin.
Speaking the right words is needed for a great sexual experience especially for the wife.

(7) It helps her to get ready!

(8) On the other hand, singles should use right words for each other, align their souls rather than their bodies (very crucial) though your body will be ruing riot. But please like Paul he " i put my body under" meaning he lent to discipline the voice spoke by his body. Please singles spiritual or not spiritual your body has voice to speak always to you heart.
The bodies are meant to come together after wedding, not before.

(9) What should come together before wedding are the souls, in the place of beautiful conversation, healthy chats, romantic exchanges of words, making plan for the future and envisioning the future together.

(10) Speaking in tongues should not replace speaking loving words to each other.
Both are very important. Pay attention married.

(11) Speaking loving words to your lover should not replace speaking loving words to your creator. Both are lovers.

(12) Often singles have not learn how to speak to there creator nd want to speak to there love. No wonder we have untruthfulness much in the lips of singles. Equally married that do not remember their God in the days of there youth are all fill with deceptive mouth

(13) God is the lover of your soul, your dear one is the lover of your body! God loves you to speak loving words to Him.
Your lover craves loving words to be spoken to him or her.

(14) After you have prayed, make sure you also play with your loved one!

(15) There must be balance of the romantic and the spiritual in order to keep your love life going and in order to make relationship lead to marriage.

(16) Speaking loving words to each other will keep false assumptions away. Speaking in tongues will keep demonic influence away.

(17) Speaking loving, romantic words to each other adds strength to your love life.
Speaking in tongues adds strength to your inner man.

(18) With your love life, you fight doubt and insecurities.
With your inner man, you fight and wade of attacks of the enemy.

(19) That is why the scripture emphasizes that romance alone will not deliver.
Rom 14:17 (KJV) For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost.

(20) That is, if you want to bring the kingdom of God into your relationship or marriage, it is not in meat and drink alone, it is not in ice cream and cinema outings alone, it is also in right living, in Shalom and in the Holy Spirit!
Do you get?

(21) That he is handsome alone would not be enough, can he speak in tongues?

(22) That she has hot legs alone would not suffice, does she have a hot heart as well?