I think it's a brilliant strategy. If a person doesn't develop a taste for highly processed engineered food, their taste buds will be honed to enjoy the textures and tastes of real food. Fruit is actually very sweet and flavourful, but when a child is fed "gummy bears advertised with real fruit juice"because their parents think they're doing something good for their kid, the kid will learn to spit the fruit out and reach for the high refined sugar and chemicals. That to me, is slow genocide and it should be illegal.
Keep going with your eating lifestyle for your family. You are providing them with good health.