'True love is not a feeling euphoric and spontaneous, but is a choice, a plan to love each other for better or for worse'.

As beautifulare the butterflies in the stomach, as well sounds the falling in love, true love really is a choice. If it is not assumed, love would fade at the first breath of wind. The decision is the love which gives long-term stability. If we were to refer to love as a feeling euphoric and spontaneous, would be to condemn premature death.

It does not seem okay to me, to place the love strictly in the "emotion corner. It is an extremely fragile area that turns into a love swing, something that can not be maintained. Love is a shared commitment, a two commitment, a very good plan in place, a choice could not be serious. Or it requires a serious dose of maturity, requires discipline, motivation, desire to succeed, commitment, ownership ... and although it sounds crazy to many planning. Planning is not so bad.

Really I do not understand why so many people are afraid of their feelings planning. That does not mean robots, but emotional discipline. Or, if you want, emotional intelligence - a relatively new term, a study area for not very long, but, as experts believe, it is extremely important in the proper functioning of human interactions. 'Wrong, you can not dictate heart', some would say. Yes, you can! And not only can, but must do it! Why say that? Because if you let led heart of euphoria and spontaneity them, you become a victim of its fragility safe.

The best team is composed love heart and reason. The two form a whole. When these two do not get along, comes slaughter. To love really means decision means accepting each other's faults, means desire to succeed together and, why not, the ability to sympathize. Love does not mean sacrifice and suffering, as many would think, but joy, happiness, well ... two. Suffering may occur in love, in some cases, but it should not be a prerequisite, but a situation which is rather unexpected.