Ah thank you so much... Wow ok, so you get it too with the hours your girlfriend works.. I will hold my hands up and admit I used to get annoyed if my wife couldnt find time for me, but I really had to take a step back and look at it from her point of view... She would be up early, work a day at the hospital (she is a nurse) pick the kids up, get home, make us all dinner, sort washing out and do any other chores before I got home, then when I got home, bath kids, try and get them ready for bed... She was exausted but as you know, men can turn it on and I expected her to be the same... How wrong was I! Its all about finding a happy medium and that window of opportunity whether its mind blowing or just nice... Chances are if its been that long it will be mind blowing even if its just regular :)