Eye Sea Yew. Indeed, the opportunity of an OR has opened itself up, although am quite a newb in this regard: hence the query. A part of me remains reticent due to the likelihood of STDs (sexually transmitted demons - lol) and an​ unnecessary mess all-round. So, I suppose it's all about the self-giving vs the self-preservation dynamic - knowing when to abandon and entrust oneself to another, and when to stay put within the halls of ivy...