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in #steemit7 years ago

☆ choose good friend ☆
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The most important and difficult thing in man's life is to choose a good friend because man is very much influenced by his friend and companion, for this reason our Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has guided us that good friend and Choose a good partner as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: (المرأ على دين دين خليله فلينظر أحد كم من يخالل)
"If a man happens to be his friend's friend, then you should consider the person who is making friends when he is a friend, what degree he is from."
Similarly, in the second Hadith, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) mentioned the example of the friend's friend's impression: (For example, al-Jaleel الصالح والسوء كحامل المسك ونافع الكير, فحامل المسك أما أن يحذبك, وما أن تبتاع منه, وأما أن (عون المعبود) ومافع الكير أما أن يحرق ثيابك, وأما أن تجد ريحا خبيثة)
"The example of a good and bad companion is like a donkey and a lumpar, will you give a drink or you will buy oil from it, or you will find a good fragrance with it? And the matter of laughter is that it is your clothes. Will you or you will have it a favorite choice ".
It is true of both of these Hadiths that we should make friends in our lives, but how is the friend? Be patient and treason, be righteous and sincerely, be a moral character, and a ban of five prayers, so we also see seeing prayers will be a curse and a treasure.
But if our friends are drunk, addicted to pornography, being a stranger, then we too will be like that.

Therefore, our dear Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: (إلا الإمامنا ولا يأكل طعامك إلا تقلى) (صحيح أبو داود)
That only friendship with the people of your friendship, and only your favorite foods are consumed.

And if a friend is mischievous, grave priesthood, then it is even more fascinating because the corrupt friend is not yet empty or he will bring evil iniquity into innovation and will either cause it to be surprised or suspicious. And the doubts of qualified innovations are misguided, and these two are bad.

And the famous narrator, Abdullah ibn Mubarak (may Allaah be pleased with him) said in connection with the unbelievers: You should be friends with the poor and the poor and avoid the friendship of the wicked.
And Hassan Basir said: لا تجالسوا أهل الأهواء ولا تجادلو هم ولا تسمعوامنهم
"You do not allow the people of the pastor to be arrogant, and do not discuss them, nor do they listen to them." (The book Al-Adab, Maulf Fawad bin Abdul Aziz al-Shallaboo)

The good news is that there are friends and companions in human life, which is a natural thing, but the obligation becomes when we become evil and oppressive, humble, and humble people as friends and friends, every moment in our lives. Cause problems
That is why you choose good friends, who can become a means of strengthening your life and living with whom you can achieve the world's achievements and achieve success.
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