Hahaha, if i am to tell you want to do here, there will be too many words on the page. I can tell you my testimonies. Like you said, you need fire, you need to be fired up, you need to feel your beauty in its substance from within you and let it whirl up and then catwalk that walk and let your very presence fill the room. It is not about too much effort. Like in life and humans, it is about substance and substance comes with knowing who you are, tapping into their depths of your spanless minds and defining and redefining etc at that point, anything you touch is gold. Applies in everything, steemit and beyond. So yes, you need to grow in your love for steemit, understand its beauty, wealth and depth and let this knowledge get deeply-rooted, then when you conviction holds sway, you will walk that room and tell the audience follow me on to steemit, with just your "come over here" index finger and they will follow you, steemit & beyond. On the side, family is hardest to bring onto steemit. I have 3 sisters and they aren't here. Well, one is! But they will follow me here eventually. I am always reachable in the chats. I teach life though, more than i teach steemit and understanding life and humans, that applies anywhere. Many times, when you are on the path to growth, you need mirrors. "Mirrors" is a role, like to play!