I will sincerely apologize now, for whatever reason I thought you were Anna, (lol) not that that's funny, I remember reading Anna's story, somehow going back and worth with the different links I assumed incorrectly that her story was your story.
I have also noticed since our last eruption you have been more carefully wording your support and advice, these are delicate situations, you or I really don't know some of these people or what happened with them outside their side the story, most people can take and decipher something in their own minds but others just take things they see on the internet as truth and who knows if that's really helpful to them or not if they confront a caseworker with something they seen or heard on the internet. Some people aren't to bright, lucky for us Snowpea didn't listen to anyone but her heart and she came out above it all but you can tell by the way she writes she is intelligent. I guess you could even take her as an example of what I was trying to say when she got really made at CPS and her mother she came here and vented with everyone her frustration, that was a positive outlet for her and there was people here to help her through that, some people just don't have that kind of discipline and would have gone off on a caseworker. I hope moving forward you can see where I was coming from and will admit that even myself I could have handled my frustration a little better. Needless to say I will always have the view from my own personal experiences that family protection is a mix of the good, bad and the ugly.