My Wedding is Too Expensive: But I Won't Power Down! Here's Why!

in #steemit6 years ago (edited)

Oh man!

A Wedding is expensive! I had no idea! Did you guys know it costs an arm and a leg to get married :D

Well, I was certainly surprised, I knew it was a lot but I didn't know how bad it was.

Considering everything you got the food, the musicians, the services, the clothes, the dress, and everything... but it spooks an average guy like me, I mean I'm not rich... and the expenses spooked me as far as making me think about Powering Down!

Well, I reached the conclusion that I am NOT powering down...

Read below if you want to read a bit of a rant allied with my outlook on why you shouldn't power down...

I Was Shocked at How Expensive a Wedding Is!

Well, first of all, I was shocked at the price tag... I mean, I only became 30 last month and I am always with my head on the clouds, so even though I proposed last Christmas I didn't REALLY stop to think about how much I would have to raise and how fast.

The thing is I'm going to pay $95 per person, and I still have those extra expenses that aren't related with the venue or the food.

This means I will need to raise about $20,000 until May next year... which in Portugal is not that easy.

Now, I can't even cut the guest list any more because it is only family and about 3-4 friends tops... but I have a big family and you know they'll get pissed at each other if some parts of it aren't invited, even if I don't get along too well with those said parts - people will think badly of it...

... you know how families are, the older members would lynch me.

Why I Won't Power Down:

So... why am I not powering down?

I have roughly 2.4K STEEM Power... If I were to cash out 2000 STEEM, at current prices, I would make $7400 which would be a HUGE boon... it would really get me up there and with more breathing space.

Well, on the other hand, that would mean I'd have to pull the plug on the people I delegate to, and stop supporting projects I love.

Finally, it would also mean my vote would be worthless and I wouldn't be able to add to the community.

I would become someone NOT invested in the future of STEEM, and I can't have that happen.

I will NOT power down... I'm in this for the long run and I believe in the good of this blockchain.

My adopted minnows will stay adopted, @friendsofgondor will continue being supported and the Crypto Empire community will continue to have my support.

Not only that, I have no SP now because 100% is delegated until it comes back in a couple of days - and I have been a CRAPPY member of the STEEM blockchain society this week thanks to not being able to vote.

In fact, I think most of you guys would stop visiting me if this was to go on and I don't blame you... I'd be someone who just leeches, leeches, leeches... or maybe I just don't WANT to be that guy.

Either way, I got a plan, and that goes hand to hand with the belief that I will be rewarded for this.

Why? Steem will rise!

I Believe I Will Be Rewarded:

It is my belief that my persistence, hard work and commitment to the blockchain will have me rewarded.

I believe that by continuing to delegate to promisor users, I will see their stake grow, they'll do the same and trigger the trickle down economy my Spiritual Brother @wwf is always talking about.

Not only that, I also believe that my 2.4 SP will grow with my investment of time, networking and work on the blockchain and compound.

Finally, the STEEM price will rise, I'm sure of it... if all else fails it will rise when the next hardfork comes and stuff starts to happen faster again. (Thanks to SMT and Automatic Signups).

Finally, I believe that the content rewards I'll get until the beggining of next year will help me get to where I need to be, or at least close.

Here's The Plan: Now Fingers Crossed!

So, here's the plan.

I will continue to have all my SP behind me and those I support. I will continue to publish articles daily and invest in the growth of the blockchain.

I'll continue to think and implement ways to grow not only the community of great people I have around me but the blockchain itself because I believe that cooperation is key.

Lastly, there's something I also planned, and I want to apologize for it... but I will take the SBD part of the rewards out for now.

The rewards in SP will stay here and grow my stake and weight, but the SBD part... It hurts to say it but I'm needing it right now, otherwise I can't raise the $20K in time.

Finally, I'm going to do the same for the @killvrill account if @fulltimegeek permits.

I'm tagging you here @fulltimegeek to ask just that... would you mind me getting only the SBD part of the post rewards out to help me pay my marriage?

I will leave the SP part to grow the account. I would have PMed you if I knew about a way to do it.


In Conclusion

So, I will NOT power down, but I will take the SBD part of the rewards for the time being.

I will keep having a big chunk of my SP delegated and I will keep on supporting everyone I feel adds to the blockchain.

I never ever took even 1 SBD out, but the time has come, I have the woman of my dreams hoping that everything runs smoothly... and STEEM WILL ALLOW IT to run just so!

Heck, if the price keeps rising I may only be doing this for a couple of months.

EDIT: It just went up more.... 4500 SBD would be enough at these prices... this gives me great hope :D Continue rocketing!

Cheers and thank you!

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Well done, good plan .. who works hard deserves
Great post from you
Thanks for sharing

Thank you for the kind words!

I'm encourage by this post to keep building my SP, I believe in no time you will be able to raise the fund for your wedding as the price of steem and SBD increases.
Goodluck on your wedding

I certainly hope it doesn't dump soon :D

I dont think there will be any dump soon, i believe it will keep growing

I think it'll keep growing, too!

Good for you! Totally right there with ya, I believe in it so much too! I didn't get brave enough to start blogging on it until beginning of February, but like you, I'm trying to be consistent through all of the ups and downs.

Proud to say I haven't missed a day of posting in over a month, no matter what comes my way...which is a lot since I'm traveling around Asia and some days are just insane. Also, adult ADHD doesn't make for a very consistent person haha.

Congrats on getting married!! So exciting! Is that your pic with the converses? Because I love it so much.

You could do an unconventional wedding to cut the costs if you want! I don't know...she may want a traditional one, and I'm just a weirdo, so nevermind.

Thanks for consciously adding value to the blockchain! I think you do provide so much value and you're not a leech at all! But it's awesome that you even care about being a leech. You're one of the good ones

The picture isn't mine, but loved it as well, it's from Pixabay.

Thanks for the kind words. As for the wedding, my fiancee wants a traditional one.

See you around nomandic!

Yeah, I figured so. It will be fun though and a good memory you'll have forever!!! It's a once in a lifetime thing so don't sweat it! It will all work out and I know you'll be able to pay for it without having to power down. I really believe that! Happy for you!

Weddings are so expensive. Our cots 10K about, or was it a bit more? lol And we got a lot of help and volunteers and special deals where we could too. I wish you the best of luck with yours. It comes and goes so quickly, enjoy it to the fullest, nerves and all, when you're living it :)

Yeah it depends on countries and cultures but I think them being expensive is almost universal!

I'm going to try to enjoy it, but I think I'll be stressed out at the same time :D

I hear you. I was so nervous. But I'm sure you'll enjoy it too ;)

What a coincidence — I proposed to my fiancee on Christmas 2017 as well :-) But you’re right about the wedding costs, they are astronomical! I think you’re making the right move by not powering down... steem is only a fraction of its 2017 peak. If you can find a way to barter to help pay for some of he wedding expenses that can help. For example, if you have translation, writing, web design or art skills you can barter for someone to do the photography, flowers, catering or music for your wedding. Good luck!

Success on your wedding too
Hope your love is doing good and on the steem blockchain too.

Wedding is really expensive but with steemit we can make it possible

Congratulations and best wishes then!

We're both great minds as we think alike ;)

Here is a push in the back.
And I would also visit your blog regardless of an upvote or not!
Most of the time I don’t have a clue if someone did upvote my comment or not!

Thanks man!
Already started saving up rewards for the first transfer.... fingers crossed that I raise the capital quick :D

Weddings are never cheap anywhere and the idea is you only get married once (even with the overwhelming stats that a lot of marriages fail) yet there are a lot of people that genuinely love each other and grow old together.

That is the dream of every couple to grow old together and it begins with one memory of their union.

You have always used your earnings to power up and be a good member of the community

I don't think it's selfish to reward yourself this time and to give the love of your life such a beautiful memory of your marriage.

We the Empire will always support you.

Wow
I never knew about the Empire community
I guess i have to join it

Feel free to join, our doors are open!

Ok man
I will be hitting the channel soon

Thanks man!

And yes, I just want to get married this once... plus one thing is for sure, if this one doesn't work I won't get married again...

Glad to have your back peeps.

When you need it, do it! And congratulations.

Thanks man! It costs stress and nerves too :P

Oh the joys of wedding costs! A person only gets married 2 or 3 times in a lifetime and it all adds up. You should just elope to Jamaica and send everyone a pic :P

Good for you for staying strong with the blockchain. I hope it all goes well for you.

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Thank you for the present Anjie!

I'll only get married once!

You're welcome, Max.

Yes, here's hoping you get to do it only once. It's gets a bit samey after the second :P

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If this one breaks apart I'll not marry again, Im doing it mostly for her as I don't really much care about the contract. so I'm sure I wont marry twice.

That's sensible. It strikes me as odd that we need the government and/or church to validate our best friendships.

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You will surely have an incredible wedding, even if not all the guests are happy lol, anyway, I see that you have a well thought out plan and I think I will support you with my mini vow as a wedding gift! congratulations

Thanks!
I very much enjoyed the mini-gift :)

little but lovingly

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