PROMISCUITY

The rapid development of technology since the early 19th century made a significant change especially in human mental development. One of them on adolescent development. Teenagers are the age of transition when a person begins to enter puberty. Adolescence is a time when teenagers are in the process of looking for identity, trying something new in themselves. Teens tend to be anticritic and defiant. That is why teenagers can easily enter into promiscuity.

The negative impact of promiscuity is more common than its positive impact. Then, what is the cause of promiscuity? Actually what are the negative effects of promiscuity? This time, the author will try to review the causes and negative effects of promiscuity in adolescents. Here's the review.

What is promiscuity ...?

Intercourse is something that people need to socialize. Intercourse itself is defined as sociable and social life. Intercourse itself occurs both in males with men, men with women, and women with women. Then in every social intercourse it happens free. Then, what exactly is promiscuity? Intercourse is a way to make friends without limits, both in speaking and behaving and so forth. Unfortunately, this method is more often the negative impact of promiscuity that is more prevalent in men and women.

According to Shaykh Muhammad bin Ibrahim Alu Shaykh rahimahullah association between men and women is divided into 3 forms. First, the association between men and women mahramnya. This is clearly allowed. Second, the association between men and other women for destructive purposes. This is clearly forbidden. Third, mix between men and women in educational institutions, shops, offices, hospitals, and at reception events. At this point there are differences of opinion. Some argue that it does not invite slander for both men and women of origin in accordance with the Shari'a and good intentions. While some others think it can invite slander.

Teenagers as one who is no longer a child but also can not be said to be adults, usually very happy to gather and socialize with his friends. However, along with the development of the times, socializing sessions that become uncontrolled so as to cause negative effects of promiscuity in adolescents.

Causes of promiscuity

1. Parents

Factors that affect teenagers choosing free association can be caused by parents, such as conflicts between parents or poor parents habits. Not a few parents who are busy working and forget the time with children. Rigid relationships between parents and children make children wonder and not a few of them seek attention by doing things that are forbidden even children can follow the lifestyle of their parents who are already involved in promiscuity.

2. Environment

The environment will affect the child to make free relationships. Unhealthy environment will support the child to do negative things. If the environment is healthy, children will be ashamed of doing negative things because there are laws or norms that are not written in the environment. Thus, the creation of shame culture is important to implement.

3. Media

The influence of mass media that continues to mushroom as the freedom of expression expands. The role of the media in campaigning promiscuity through the culture of courtship and changing couples is very large.

4. Lack of Reproductive Health Education

Reproductive health education is often considered taboo to be talked about at home and at school. So eventually the teenagers find out for themselves. In fact, the information on reproductive health is not average with reliable sources.

5. Religious and spiritual advice is much forgotten.

Religiosity does not guarantee a person to not make promiscuity. However, with proper direction a sense of religion can keep a person from a useless act. In addition, the eastern customs such as courtesy, hospitality, and ethics are rare.

Negative impact due to promiscuity.

There are some negative effects of promiscuity caused when young people gather in one room. Negative effects of promiscuity are among others

1. Unwanted Pregnancy

This is one of the negative effects of promiscuity due to pregnancy outside of marriage. Usually, the teenager who is experiencing this will find a way to abort (abortion) the content of which more done by non-health workers. As a result, there are health problems such as difficult to have children when married later or death.

2. Drop out

This is a negative effect of promiscuity. Because they prefer the ego over reason and reality. As a result, rising poverty due to lack of education and increasingly stupid society become a common occurrence.

3. High Crime

High criminality
Of course the negative effects of promiscuity trigger the crime rate. Low education, poverty, and the need for fun things like drug use and addictive substances trigger a person to commit crime such as stealing, robbing, raping, or killing someone.

4. Social Diseases

The negative consequences of promiscuity are further increased social ills. A sense of empathy and compassion is no longer to be considered. Replaced with a sense of egoism, no matter as long as happy, the nature of hedonism, and doing all bad ways to get what it wants.

5. Global Health Problems

The negative impact of later promiscuity is the occurrence of health problems. Infectious diseases such as HIV / AIDS, Hepatitis, and venereal diseases become a sight that can be found. In fact, until now, this disease has no cure and cause other health problems such as infertility or even death.

These are some of the causes and negative effects of promiscuity. It is important to be known by parents and even teenagers themselves. By understanding this, hopefully teenagers do not fall into the ugliness. Hopefully this article useful.

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