Another $0.05 upvote seeking Habibi. I doubt if you have read everything he wrote above. Just another skimmer for comment Habibi you are. You rambled as if what he wrote above encourages selfishness. For the second time, let me post the sub-headings maybe you'll read them this time.

How to prepare your reader to accept your message
How to hypnotize readers with vague language
How to make your question their beliefs by using specific language
How to make yourself look more important than you really are
Using quotes and statistics to deliver your message
Why you shouldn't spend all of your time on Steemit
Censorship by high value accounts is the real problem with the centralization of SP
Why you need to constantly evolve, especially when you gain notoriety
How to deal with haters and trolls, pt 2
Should you stay small and "boutique" or go big?

Those are nuggets for not only steemit but copywriting and whatever concers writing, and life in general. If it still sounds selfish to you, then I doubt if your situation can be salvaged.

You have my upvote though.