I do understand your concern. Its not at all easy, but all I can say is do not give up and keep writing good content. Also follow a set of people who you see have similar interest. They may not respond in the beginning but if they see you consistently visiting their blogs they too will start responding. Dedicate a little time of your day on daily basis but yes it is important that you also focus on other things. Steemit can be your secondary hobby.
I wish you good luck and success my dear💖💖