Yes, l totally agree with you that there are negative circumstances that drives people ,for example,some people in my country Uganda go on and sacrifice their biological children so as to full fill the conditions given to them by the witch doctors so as to get wealthy hence materialism

Fear

is the other big nightmare that can break down any man's heart ,its like cancer which keeps on conquering u up to when it eats you up .Due to fear you miss many opportunities but the good news is, this problem can solved by reading and grasping the scriptures and learning to be yourself as you have mentioned .Ejemai thank you very much for taking your time to write this beautiful article that is going to impose a positive impact on peoples' lives