Well I found you because of your tags.
But yes, lol becoming a nerd would definitely help your case.
Have a look at some coding tutorials.
Make some and publish them on here I'm sure people would love to see that.
Just blog and make friends and the rest will come to you man.
Have some cool photos? Share those :D
Think of it as reddit. If you had nothing to say- you wouldn't start a subreddit would you? lol exactly.
Find something to say- of value- use some tags and take some pictures and videos and get going.
I'll follow you and upvote and reshare your stuff so you get more reach. Pass the good will along.