I remember when I first join Steemit about two months ago. I spend 13 hours a day throwing in some thoughtful comments here and there. I had to delete my Whatsapp at some point and focus most of my time on discord since that's like Steemit coffee shop. And it worked for me. My usual advice for people is to find what whats for them. If after three months, you don't know what works for you, I guess it's time to pack up and wave goodbye to Steemit.