I already knew english before going to school, I knew it before my classmates learned it, wanna know how, I played games, they were interesting, I wanted to know what was going on, I learned by doing, that's the way, so keep writing. I'm not so sure what you are trying to say

To be fair I do write long and clunky comments as well,

Spread out the topics a bit and focus on one at a time,

ok once

First of all not everyone is a native speaker and not everyone in the world has equal rights in education like Europeans and Americans, most schools in Asia are paid so that means you need money to learn.
(v is v w is different, work and venom, just learn grammar, it's bs it's what it is you need experience to know what is right and what is wrong, doesn't look right and it doesn't sound right, it would sound ewwryone when you put a w where a v should be)
Grammar is one point, positions, capital letters.... commas damn I don't know how to say it, I just know it. Learn from your mistakes!

don't say it's ok because I'm from wherever, I bet I will have a haaaaaaard time learning Asian languages because the structure is different, but that doesn't mean anything, I know i can do whatever I set my mind to, so can you, when you own up to your mistakes, you can choose not to make them. (I made a mistake I just corrected, choose to not make them is not the correct way to order the words.) Explaining it would take another 2-3 paragraphs, in short you can't do something not,

Imagine how parents can send(the schools aren't theirs they can't "let" them to school)

no point in correcting everything, my point is you can learn, you have the internet now, you can talk you can read books, there are sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo many sites and people around it's a shame to say you can't do something, anyone can pretty much learn anything, what stops them is their own belief.

I'm sorry but I'm not a native English speaker, I hope you understand what I'm trying to say, even if the language isn't your mother tongue. I can shower you with YouTubes, Ted Talks, more knowledge you can stomach for decades, but that's up to you mate, you choose what you do :)

Best of luck :)