Just think about it. Everyone's condition is the same. Just like when we board a broken plane. Of course there are people who have good luck and bad luck. Some are tough, some are weak; some are rich, some are poor. It's just that nobody has much greater power than anyone else. Everyone is the same. The one who has something always worries, lest what he has now will be lost, while the person who has nothing is always worried, lest I will forever remain a person who has nothing. Everyone is the same! Therefore, people who realize it faster should try to be a little tougher. Just pretending is okay. That's right? Wherever there is no human will. There are only humans who pretend tough.
I agree with the ideas @dobartim this, not a bad word if we want to try, regards @dobartim