Reason for broken marriage
Good day steemian, it been more than two weeks that I joined the marvelous platform in which I have learnt a lot and participated in few contest ,and am so happy that am part this great community.
Well am happy that people are able to learn one or two things from my past write up. Actually today I will be talking about what I think we children of nowadays find it difficult to succeed in, I know people are curious to know what it is and am not actually planning to keep people in suspense, will just go straight to the point.
I actually will be talking about MARRIAGE which I think it is a big problem for we child of 80s, 90s, till date. if we look at the rate in which marriage last long in the 50s, 60s we will be thrilled why because they understand what it is and plan well for it. what do we children of nowadays do we take our time planning for wedding which is just a party, fun and forget the necessary thing we are suppose to plan for.
Actually I will start by defining what marriage really means, well if we check Google, it says MARRIAGE is the coming of the love one to become one actually there definition is right but I say it incomplete, to me I will define MARRIAGE as the uniting of two people has lover in personal relationship to become one not under any agreement or a reason but with TRUE FEELINGS, UNENDING LOVE, ENDURANCE, TRUST AND A BIG FORGIVABLE HEART.
Well the question is does any of this nowadays just wedded carry and of these important facts and what are they…………..
LIVING TOGETHER HAS ONE,
UNDER AGREEMENT ,
A REASON,
TRUE FEELINGS,
UNENDING LOVE ,
ENDURANCE ,
TRUST,
NO THIRD PARTY,
A BIG FORGIVABLE HEART.
But what really surprises me is that most marriage nowadays are based on agreement and some stupid reasons, Years back my father said to me, my son, marriage is like a ROSE flower, whenever it blooms in the morning both old and young, blind, deaf, dumb even the cripple want to have it cause of it saint, colour, that beautiful rose that everybody want in the morning do u know how it look in the night, it look horrible, disgusting unwanting and so on. Then he asked me one question, that rose you love in the morning when it is looking beautiful will you love it back at night?
Why agreeing to marry him/her just because of one stupid reason or one agreement that you think should obey, why deny yourself what you love because you want to make someone proud, why allow those that won’t help you live your married life make or take decisions for you? All a successful marriage need is true love, with that all things shall come to pass.