When we believe that God is not going to send us a Husband or a Wife

in #steemit7 years ago

Before I got married, I believed that God would never give me an Identical Spouse to me. Because I thought I was not going to need it or that it was not so necessary. In a few words I thought that I would bring a husband with different tastes to mine. With approaches, decisions, ways of being and many other things that we already know are very different from what you would like.

One day I asked myself, if God is going to give me a husband other than me, then how are we going to get along, what is the joke of having a garlic-flavored half-orange, I was one of those people who thought it best to stay alone, and in fact I was a good time alone. I fled to men until finally one day I understood that the reason my partner was different, was so that in the union could be a single person with him, that what I did not understand he could teach me or vice versa, because man can not be without the woman, nor the woman without the man, in the current society the man and the woman think that the more man or more women they have is the better woman or better man. And in reality it is the opposite: it is better man or better woman who marries until death separates them.

Because you have to be a man or a woman with pants well placed to love your partner with his faults and virtues forever. If it can be achieved with patience, well, rather, with a lot of patience. We must learn to complement ourselves with our will, it is much easier. Friend and friend who are about to hang up the gloves and throw your marriage in the trash I tell you give yourself another chance, but this time agree with your partner and try to complement the other's qualities until they can put together their heads and if they have Children do it even more because I tell you from experience that other couples have lived when couples are separated. The ones who suffer are children.

Here I leave this step for you to make your last fight:
The communication; It is very important in the couple, do not be sorry and communicate with your partner even if the point to be treated is very painful.
Thank you very much for taking this time to read my post, it is very pending for my next publication.

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