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RE: Dragging You Up With Me - Week 3
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I can totally see you as the person to immediately assume it was your mistake, you would make a good Canadian 😉 everyone just says sorry and carries on 😝
I tend to avoid confrontation but my gut always tells me to stand my ground meanwhile my brain screams run with a heart pounding louder every second... that pounding heart will drowned out everything including whom ever I may be speaking to.
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Yess the physiological always makes it harder to think straight!
In hindsight I can think of all kinds of smart things to do or say but whether I do it is another thing.
The flight mode makes me go in shock though for the few seconds haha
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That shock is your brain immediately taking the place of complacency, you just want to get the situation over with and move on!
Everyone is a genius in hindsight lol but I also figure there is a little tact to using silent war in these situations. If the oppressor can make valid points of the situation without escalating the argument due to your lack of input most often they are on the winning side yet if your silence breaks their calm I would speculate they are in the wrong and know it already!
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That is a very good analysis! You have gone beyond just hindsight!! Yes best thing to do is to let it pass rather than escalate even though you may feel it is unfair
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Thanks Vincy my analytical brain is good for something after all 💪
I like using negatives reinforcing a positive such as “beyond your compassion” ... at least if I feel like stirring the pot 😉 typically it will get a good response with an unintelligible reply 😆
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