Hello friends of STEEMIT, today I want to touch a topic that really should reach everyone Bullying whether you are a father, mother, brother, family member or friend, unfortunately we are in a world where, even though we supervise our children, We always know what happens to them. This topic is about becoming aware and teaching your children what is right and what is wrong, and above all to spread the information.

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Bullying also known as bullying, is often psychological and even physical abuse in many cases, a person or a group of them, whether children or youth, sometimes teachers and adults also collaborate in this type of abuse. One of the most striking features in this issue is that the intimidate you do not do with everyone, but usually has only one in your sights, who mistreats, harasses and intimidates seeking to lower the self-esteem of the boy or girl, It does not necessarily mean that it is at school, because where they see that person, they seek to intimidate them, obtaining for them a feeling of superiority.

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Many see it as a problem that lies only in the school environment and it is not like that, it lies in the social sphere. Those who do Bullying bother the youngest or the most vulnerable children. They point to children who are different, who do not wear fashionable clothes or who are part of a social or racial minority. They disturb children who are developing and are clumsy with their body, or overweight, or even the most studious or very shy. They do not need much to be inspired if they intend to hurt, humiliate or leave out someone from their circle of friends. Not only do they humiliate children who are attacked, it also affects nearby witnesses, especially if they do not know what to do about it.

THIS IS NOT A JOKE OR A GAME, IT IS UNACCEPTABLE!

Unfortunately, sometimes as adults we do not know how to differentiate what our little ones go through, many times the victims of all this abuse disguise it with a smile and an "all is well" when it is not like that, maybe hiding all their problems, and as a father You must know how to pay attention to these signals so you can do something on time.

Victims tend to suffer from depression, post-traumatic stress disorder, anxiety, mood disorders and low self-esteem.

One of the first signs that the child has a problem are the changes in their behavior, they are not sudden changes but they occur very slowly and gradually affect their personality. Children who were formerly extroverted begin not to want to talk with old friends, or with family, stop dating. The child who is bullied avoids going to the place where he suffers every day, of course he does not want to go to school, he asks to skip classes, he gets nervous when he has to go to school and starts to be absent very often, he looks sad, shows mood swings and often lowers his academic performance. He suffers unexplainable fears or isolates himself, he can suffer attacks of anger, violence or be more irritable than normal. The problem is that as some behaviors are so common in adolescence, it is often difficult to identify them as warning signals, but we must always be alert and maintain good communication with them.

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Bullying is a problem that must be stopped and immediately, not only is it physical abuse, there are many cases around the world where children and young people have reached suicide.

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Your performance is essential to help him or her, DI NO TO BULLYING !!

Here in Venezuela the Bullying affects many children and adolescents, there is not a single high school, a single school where this does not happen. Where the school authorities, teachers and representatives do nothing about it. Children hurt themselves, and others hurt them because of bullying because parents do not teach their children what bullying hurts and is bad, teachers do nothing about it, managers do nothing about it . Nobody does anything about it.

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If this happens to the son of a politician or someone important, I am sure that there is already a law for this, but it is not so. This pattern is repeated again and again and nobody does anything ... Parents send their children to school thinking it is a safe place, but this is where all this school and social harassment is.

Reading a little about the bullying in Venezuela, one of the cases that surprised me the most was that of a boy of only 6 years old, to whom his classmates gave him a brutal beating that left him in the intensive care unit with the fractured left clavicle , the fractured femur, traumatism in the thoracic box, detachment of the pleural may (lung fissure). The beating occurred at approximately 7:40 am and the teachers called their representatives at 2:30 pm because the child felt bad. My question is: Where were your teachers who did not see what they did to the child, and why did they wait so long to tell the representatives? There is definitely a big flaw in the system that everyone refuses to see.

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Words hurt like blows.

Seeing all my childhood I was a victim of Bullying by a teacher when I was in primary school, exactly in the third grade and it is something that really affects you as a child because you receive destructive criticism from an adult who is supposed to take care of you and guide you in that stage They even physically attacked me once and it was not inside the school, they followed me to my house, but as the girl who assaulted me saw that I defended myself, she did not bother me again, but other compañeros did. Again I was in the role of victim throughout the course of the baccalaureate, exactly up to the fourth year, I remember that they hid my purse, they stole phones, money, and it really is very difficult in this country since it not only happened to me, but many more ... I was the one who made the decision to change schools because my parents and I sought help repeatedly and always gave us the same answer: "They are too many students and we can not control them all". We denounced in the educational area to the lyceum, students and teachers and the truth was a waste of time because they really did not do anything again. I have a nephew who is already at the school stage and although he is 7 years old, I talk to him about what is right and wrong, if they hit him he should tell his teacher and when he leaves school, his mother, if they see what they do damage to another child help him and tell an adult what happened, the education comes from home and depends on what you see and teach him in your family the adult that can be.

Do not do to others what you would not like them to do to you, become aware of this problem and raise awareness among those around you.