Ten stupid habits, watch out ... you might have one!

"When you're dead, you do not know you're dead, it's only painful for others ... the same applies to you when you're a fool"
In fact, it is very difficult to accurately define and judge our own intelligence. Whatever the level of your intelligence, your thoughts will often show you that you are intelligent and if not at all! Whether you are intelligent or not, it is your habits alone that determines this and you alone are responsible for your habits ... and now here are the most idiotic habits that represent fundamental differences between the lifestyle of each of the two categories:

First: the fools are always right (Danning-Kruger effect)

Stupid world

In the positions of disagreement always sees himself right and trusts that he is the most efficient, he has a stalemate, which makes him not show any willingness to discuss, he fights and fights but his discussion only to prove his opinion, and whatever the other party is efficient and has the argument will not succeed in persuading him will not budge stupid Or change his position on something in what is known as the influence of Denning-Kruger.

Unlike the smart ones who, despite their great self-confidence, always have the flexibility and the ability to listen to others and do not make their decisions before the discussion and ideas and analysis and to verify the validity of their first opinion, or even change once they find the best alternative, they do not deliver anything Absolutely!

Second: do not control their emotions

Scream and anger

Although it is known that "your high voice is evidence of your weakness," but the idiots once they feel that they are losing control of the situation and things do not go as arranged, see them fluttering and often rushing and turn to show their feelings and act angrily, They control the situation and protect themselves.

Unlike the smart ones who often have the ability to control their emotions, and control their emotions even if they express their anger from time to time, they deal with the rest of the total.

Third: selfish people ignore the feelings of others

Selfishness and self-preference as human beings, it is important to find a way to balance our need to achieve our goals in life and to appreciate the needs and feelings of others. This is not what fools take into account because they do not offer anything for nothing, and only see themselves.

Unlike the smart ones, they sympathize with others who respect their feelings and try to see things from their perspective, which makes it easy for them to understand the other's point of view, because they are well aware of the difference. We are not the same person, we do not think the same way, we do not believe in the same things. Different!

Fourthly: They resent the success of others

Jealous

The stupid people think they are the best at all, and even though the failure of the other does not make you successful, it pleases the idiots and makes more effort than they do for their personal success; they do not believe the success of others thinking that this diminishes their importance and away from the focus of light!

Unlike the smart ones we see, they motivate others, help them to succeed and do not fear it. They are valued for their own competence and have enough self-confidence. They also believe that cooperation is necessary to achieve great progress and achievement in general and deal with the principle of mutual benefit. Known as Win-Win Situation.

Fifth: They are not responsible for their mistakes

Foolish people are irresponsible people who never admit their mistakes. When they commit mistakes, they quickly find faults and blame them and evade their responsibility for them.

On the other hand, intelligent people are responsible for everything that happens in their lives, they bear their mistakes and only blame themselves for it.

Sixth : impatient, prefer quick results

Foolish people do not have a clear future vision and prefer quick results and short-term pleasures.

Unlike smart people who are keen to make sure that their choices and behaviors are compatible with what they want in the future, they are always willing to make short-term sacrifices but eventually enjoy more and get what they want in the long term.

Seventh : Do not focus on themselves

What is harder to live and you are trying to prove something to anyone!

This is precisely what smart people realize, so we see them giving away the opinions and assessments of others. As we have said before, they are responsible for everything that happens in their lives. They do not give others more than their size, while the idiots do a lot of nervous and psychological effort to try to prove themselves to others rather than To provide him and his ability to achieve what he wants is for himself and his life!

Eighth : Do not initiate, lose personal leadership

Because of their lack of self-leadership skills, fools only work under supervision, pressure and encouragement from others, and receive instructions from others, they are always waiting to motivate them!

Unlike the smart ones, entrepreneurs are working on things that they have the power to control, rather than being preoccupied with things they can not control (the circle of interests). They use this ability to influence events, expand their circle of influence, trust in their abilities and their faith in their goals. , Motivate themselves to achieve them and press themselves to work consistently without supervision to achieve the highest standards.

Ninth : The visionless, do not direct or clear message in life

The fools often find them missing vision and are not specific to their goal or their mission in life, and therefore their behavior is not of their personal choices and what they want for themselves, while acting as dictated by circumstances and conditions or even feelings.

Unlike smart people, they have a personal vision, a clear message and a life-orientation, specific to their goals and priorities, and therefore their behavior is determined by their own principles and what they want for themselves in life.

Tenth : Not renewed

In order to work effectively we need from time to time to maintain and develop ourselves, and this does not throw idiots who are characterized by stagnation or not to a certain level, but smart ones accustomed to the renewal and self-development periodically, and work on the four dimensions (physical, mental, social, spiritual) continuously.

Habits

Finally, after you have developed habits that represent fundamental differences between those with the lowest level and the highest level of intelligence, I should point out that the custom is only a meeting point for three elements ...

Knowledge of what I do and why.
Skill or how to work.
Motivation or desire to perform.
Thus, habits are acquired or learned, so you can work on these elements to avoid or get rid of bad habits and gain other habits you find useful, you are solely responsible for your habits.