I understand both sides of the fence... The whole concept of affilate links though is solving problems others may have by reference to a solution but to give credit to the person who has shown the person with the problem the solution. If some one didn't refer someone to a new great platform such as this.... It may not be found... even if it was a paid referral such as an ad that paid when the product was bought or generated traffic. Great discussion and love all the answers. I myself would use a referral link- affiliate link to help others find great products and services that offer value to others.