PSYCHOLOGICAL NUMBNESS
Just take some minutes to think about this - Have you ever gone psychological numb? Your health is perfect - you just can't lay an hold to what you feel. You stay expressionless. You have no definitive meaning to life. You are just existing.
This strong effect on our life often happens when we experience a life-changing moment. Occurrences that leave indelible marks on our hearts and mind. A sudden turn around happens to our thought process and we have a forever changed experience.
Most importantly, these psychological numb experiences are needed to change the course of our lives. I'm not saying it's a palatable experience but sometimes it's needed. A new you erupts. You can take an horse to a river but you definitely cannot force it to drink. Your experience in life could change your being but the effect is your choice. A choice to either allow the experience pass through you or not.
I am not campaigning for tragic events and failures, however, when such occurrences happen you come out stronger. Ready to face the world.
Ready to give your life its best shot???
Never let your experiences pull you down. You could have lost a loved one but don't stay and wallow in self pity for a long time.
Brace up! Stay determined! Stand strong!
It might not be easy but you'll come out from the numbness a better person.
Strive hard! It's your call!
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Beautifully written Abimbola. We should learn from our experiences, whether good or bad. The bad ones teach us how not to do stuff and the good ones teach us what to repeat to reenact the experience.
Oh yeah... It shows our actions and in actions often times would yield consequences whether good or bad. I call this point you noted reinforcement