The journey of marriage. Why some succeed and why some fail?

in #steemchurch6 years ago (edited)

Hello steemians,

Its a great honour to be part of steemit church. I have something to share with you on marriage. Today we shall look at why some succeed and why some fail:MarriageSeriesNotes1.jpg
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When we talk of marriage, many people have been deceived and believed the lie. They think that there are some people who are born or gifted to have good and successful marriage, whilst others are destined for bad or poor relationships. The answer is big NO! Everyone marriage can fail or be successful if the couple follow and stick to the God's guidance.bible.jpg
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Still there are many people who do not know how to make marriage: marriage is made. The truth is that, every human being carries 7 things in him. You are what you are based on these 7 things. It is these 7 things that shape a person. They inform your thinking, the way you behave and the way you relate to people.

The 7 things are as follows:

  1. A person's upbringing
  2. A person's personal experience
  3. A person's beliefs
  4. A person social life
  5. RReligion
  6. Residential propinquity
  7. Perception about gender and marriage

We carry these 7 things everywhere: school, work and church. It cut across.
Now, when we marry, the way a husband (wife) properly nurture, handle or treat each other or poor treatment and mishandling of partner, would determine and decide the sustenance of that relationship. The reason why some marriages fail or succeed much depends on the way you look at your partner through these 7 things.marriage.jpg
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Let me share a mystery about this subject with you. Turn with me to the Book of Genesis 1:26-27: Then God said, "Let us make man in our image, in our likeness and let them rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air, over the livestock, over all the earth, and all over the creatures that move along the ground. So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him, male and female he created them.

       **LESSON**

For marriage to work, people must understand this wisdom.

  1. The awakening

  2. You are not a wife, until you are a woman first, likewise you are not a husband until you are a man first.

  3. Acceptance

  4. Leave your father and mother
    Contemplating Divorce.jpg
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            **CONCLUSION**
    

In conclusion, people need pure unadulterated word of God and serious time for praying to God.GBWA-20171222214508.jpg

"Marriage is indeed a beautiful thing" as we always say

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Zico are you married?
Is this from experience or books?☺

Awwww do you know the best marriage counselor in the world is single?

Marriage is a beautiful natural thing. But it takes a lot of working together by both husband and wife to make it as successful as it should be. You have contributed a lot towards that. Congrats

Sure...thank you bro

Am not married yet but I think I need this kinda post to help me know what I'll be getting into when am ready for marriage and what is expected of me as a husband ....
Thank you for this

Sure...just follow me for more

You got a 0.99% upvote from @upmewhale courtesy of @zicodee!

Marriage is sweet bitter at times but with God in it, it all works together for our good

Exactly bro

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Marriage is a whole new life in itself. It takes the two to make it blissful

Exactly so bro

Before marriage between couples can be successful, understanding, trust, love
must come from both couples. @zicodee.

Sure but sometimes go beyond that. Thanks for your comment

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