At a time when the loss of a family member is difficult to say a word of consolation that comes out of our mouth, we can not know the pain your debtors feel, but the word of God gives us hope:

For the Lord himself, with a commanding voice, with the voice of an archangel, and with the trumpet of God, will descend from heaven; and the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who live, those of us who remain, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to receive the Lord in the air, and so we will always be with the Lord. Therefore, encourage one another with these words.
1 Tesalonicenses 4:16-18

very respectfully and with your permission to send this message to your wife, so that you remember the near future: