STEEMCHURCH- Create no more pain in the present (Freedom from pain)
Nobody's life is entirely free of pain and sorrow. Isn't it a question of learning to live with them rather than to avoid them?
If you have had deep conversations with people you will discover that nobody is without problem in life. Even if at present all things seems to be going smoothly, you will most likely encounter life challenges as time proceeds and these problems will cause you pain. There is no man that has lived and died without experiencing a form of pain. So if this pain is inevitable it means we should always look for means of getting over it. Different people have different ways of dealing with pain, some have the ability to suppress, others find it difficult to get over pain while some others get over pain easily with time.
Pain can come in different forms, it can be from loosing a loved one to the cold hands of death, running into loss in a business, suffering from different types of abuse and the list goes on till infinity. The intensity of this pain depends on the degree of resistance to the present moment, and this in turn depends on how strongly you are identified with your mind.
First step to dealing with pain is acceptance. To get over pain you have to accept that there is nothing you can do to change a past event, whatever you felt could be done that you did not do does not matter anymore. You should begin to think of a way forward as that is the only alternative. The more you are able to accept the now, the more you are free from pain. If the situation causing you pain is still happening, to defeat that pain you have to accept it and believe that things will be better. You don't have to pretend as if nothing is happening, and I don't think consoling yourself with the fact that there are people experiencing difficulties far greater than yours will be a long term solution because you will easily forget about that fact. You have to be conscious of your pain, allow yourself to feel it before you will be able to move on.
I once had a conversation with a friend who was always telling me about the pain he is going through in life and in the conversation I told him about some issues I was having and he was marveled by what I was revealing to him. I just had to let him know that everyone has a reason to grieve but what we shouldn't do is allow our life to be controlled by grieve and pain.
Realize today that the present moment is all you have, nothing else is guaranteed. Live your life as happily as you can while you still breathe. worrying about problems and dwelling in pain does not solve it.
Another excellent writeup from you.
SteemChurch is about freedom, so your article was really appealing. We appreciate the personal experiences you shared. During difficult situations, humabs often feel the present moment is unacceptable, unpleasant, or awful.
Watch your mind. Or watch for feelings of sadness and pain throughout the day. When you are feeling sorrow or pain, immediately call out the thoughts that led you there.
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I agree with your first step, we have to accept the pain. Then try to find reasons for the pain. Sometimes, talking about your pain to others could be relieving too. There's hardly a person that would tell you he hasn't felt a pain before. We have to look for a way forward. Thanks for bringing this up.
We all experience pain in life, whether emotional or physical pain. No pain is alike, we must all walk the journey and path that God has for our lives, yet God promises that there is a purpose in all pain. We can press on each day knowing that our God loves us and wants to use the hurt and pain in this world to bring Him glory. The below Bible verses can help you understand the purpose of pain in your life and encourage you to find joy in the middle of suffering. Please don't give up hope, God has so much more for your life!
We all must feel pain buh we shouldn't dwell in pain rather we should live happily.
He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.
There is no one who has not come across pain or have a cause to grieve but the ability to overcome it is what makes us strong through the help of God you will be restored.
Tears are part and parcel of the human condition. In describing life’s seasons, Solomon poignantly shared with all of us in Ecclesiastes 3:4 that there is “a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance.” Since the time of Eden, since the beginning, the history of humanity has been a “trail of tears.” In fact, the Bible can be called, along with its many other titles, a “book of tears.” It is after all the divine diary of all shed tears—not merely man-made tears, but tears shed by God.
God will wipe away every tear
But the good news is that your Bible reveals an incredible prophetic promise about a future time when things will be dramatically different from anything that exists now or ever has. It is a promise from our heavenly Father that ultimately must become more real than any human premise that touches us—be it past, present or future.
You are definiatelly right everybody bornto this earth is prone to problem
Well I believe we all go through pain at some point I'm life but it is also true that we don't have to let it weigh us down. For surely, there will be brighter days.
LET GO OF EVERY PAIN IN YOUR LIFE....
AS GOD FOR HELP. HE CARES FOR YOU
We all experience pain in life, whether emotional or physical pain. No pain is alike, we must all walk the journey and path that God has for our lives, yet God promises that there is a purpose in all pain. We can press on each day knowing that our God loves us and wants to use the hurt and pain in this world to bring Him glory.