Challenges Christians Face During Courtship
Welcome to my blog, today I will be sharing the concluding part of the series 'Challengess Face During Courtship'
*Financial Crisis:
Money has brought a lot of troubles to many relationships as people in courtship look ahead towards a fruitful marital life.
One of the things they consider is financial security.
No matter how strong love maybe, money may always be an issue. Therefore, you need to look at it but, with the understanding that God is the source of all money and things can always change and become better depending on how you live your life.
Never let money kill your love. And do not allow love to stop you from considering the financial capability of the man you want to marry in taking care of your home.
Count the cost before you make a final decision.
If there is depleted fear in you about the financial security of your home, I advise you see your pastor for counseling on what to do before getting married to the person.
*Strong Urge To Start Living Together When Not Yet Married:
One of the errors that is common among people in love today and hope to get married, is moving in together and start living together as if they are already married.
it is evil to start living with a man or woman you are not married to yet.
In most cases, the ladies are thrown out after a long while, without getting the marriage they were promised. In some cases, their men keep postponing the marriage promised.
This is because the lady is already living with him in the house and there is no need or zeal to do the marriage anymore.
Don't be a loser in this matter. Keep yourself clean. Let your intended husband keep chasing after you and looking for you until the marriage is done.
Don't make yourself cheap by moving in with him, no matter your personal problems, including accommodation problems.
Keep your honour, remain sought after and precious in his sight and not worthless.
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Women should support their spouse financially, that’s a virtue!
Who can find a virtuous woman?
for her price is far above rubies.
The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her,
so that he shall have no need of spoil.
She will do him good and not evil
all the days of her life.
She seeketh wool, and flax,
and worketh willingly with her hands. Proverbs 31:10-13
Thanks for such lovely insights @queengift
A virtuous woman, is indeed a rare gift.
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