RELATIONSHIP QUESTION

IS IT POSSIBLE GOD GIVES YOU A FIANCEE AND SINCE THEN IT HAS BEEN HELL...IT'S EITHER ONE PROBLEM OR THE OTHER?

This was a question ask by a confused brother who never know what to do as a result of a nagging fiancee. Let me quickly tell you these.

A broken relationship is far far better than a broken or failed marriage

The first key I like you to note before I go on is that

THAT GOD REVEALED A MAN TO YOU WHEN YOU ASK HIM TO SHOW YOU YOUR LIFE PARTNER ISN'T THE SAME AS IT'S TIME TO BEGIN THE RELATIONSHIP

As for me, I don't believe God can ever give anyone a partner that will scatter his or her relationship with God or scatter HIS plans. Remember this also:

Our God is never the author of confusion

Note: no man walk with God will ever end up marrying hell on earth

There are five things that speaks to man

1. Yourself (flesh)

2. Emotions

3. Devils

4. Friends

5. God

The inability to develop yourself and understand the voice of God will help you take your emotions or devil or any other voice as God's voice

Before God speaks to you over anything, he must have first settle any matter that will destroy you or waste your time

So at the mercy of his communication, there is already settled matters

We the young ones in this generation enter wrong relationship because of peer pressure and so on. 'All my mates are married i want to get married also'.

The answer to the above question is yes or no oo but I think better understanding is needed for others as well

Though the answer is NO. There is different between suffering and test. Inability of understand your spiritual sense of communication with the spirit will makes you think you are suffering whereas, you are passing through test.

God test men, he does not tempt men

Satan tempt men but never test men

Only your stability in the spirit will help you understand the spirit behind any manifestations you are passing through. That gift of the spirit will bail you out in every area of your life including marriage.

Our God is Spirit, so those who will worship him must worship in in truth and in the Spirit
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To have a true walk with God, to get all your answer and demands be a man/woman of the Spirit.