Thanks for reading , it's actually the second, this is the one.

About the "taking experience ", while dating giving a kiss to "show appreciation", or a kiss to make the other "person special" because you want to and feel it, That is giving, you don't owe your partner a kiss. When it leads to unbolting, ungluing, or undressing when not in marriage, it takes your worth, respect with God.

Trying to be precise and not miss the point, :)