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Objective: Understand that our successes, our fulfillment and our happiness depend on God and on the ability he has given us to relate effectively.

Read: Matthew 7:12 "Therefore, whatever you want men to do to you, so also do to them."

This verse is called the "Golden Rule" for human relationships. Jesus taught this perfect rule to establish warm human relationships.

We must do 2 things:

a) Decide how we want to be treated.
b) Then we must begin to treat others in that way.

There are 5 ways in which we generally want others to treat us:

• We like others to encourage us: 1st Thessalonians 4:18 "encourage one another", 5:14 "encourage those of little encouragement". We must recognize people for their virtues, for the tasks they perform, encourage them to move forward in the midst of difficulties. Words of encouragement have tremendous value in people and have a very positive impact. Do not be a person who criticizes or discourages others, be a person who recognizes the values ​​of others and encourages them.

• We like others to recognize us: When Jesus saw Nathanael approaching him, he said of him: "Here is a true Israelite in whom or there is deceit" (John 1:47). Jesus recognized the qualities of Nathanael and expressed them in public. Many times we think wonderful things about people, but we never let them know.

• We like others to forgive us: "The one who covers the lack seeks friendship, but the one who divulges it separates the friend" (Proverbs 17: 9). If we are extremely hard with people or excessively perfectionist we will not be able to relate easily. Those who do not forgive are either extremely proud or extremely insecure. They do more harm to themselves than the harm they do to others.

• We like others to listen to us: "To him who answers words before hearing, it is foolishness and reproach" (Proverbs 18:13). God gave us ears to listen and only one language to speak. Many times we like to talk, but we have little capacity to listen to people. Listening is showing interest in the other person.

• We like to be understood: Communication problems affect relationships especially in marriage: Do not listen to the other, do not talk to him for extended periods of time. We have to work hard to have good communication with others, and this requires time and patience. When people are misunderstood they experience frustrations, disappointments, loneliness, etc.

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Conclusion
a) The key is to put yourself in the place of the other, instead of putting others in their place.
b) Treat others the way you like to be treated: encourage, appreciate, forgive, listen, understand.
c) See people as allies, not adversaries.

God bless you