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RE: Day 8 - Steem Advent Calendar 2018, Win prize everyday! ๐๐
During 2018 my main focus has been on taking care of myself and working my way through the grief of losing the man I loved to cancer in 2017. I feel that I am doing so much better with it all as 2018 comes to an end. Every time someone comes in through the door, I have finally been able to stop expecting that it's him. Having eSteem to fill my days has been a big part of my recovery and I appreciate all of you more than you will ever know
It is never easy to lose those we love and we always want it to be a nightmare and wake up and have them by our side. But it makes me very happy that in all of us you will find some help and you know that we will always try to make your days a little happier. Love you very much! Thanks for being part of my 2018 I think I will never have words to say how grateful I am with youโค
You do make my days brighter! Thanks for your very sweet comment.
Thanks to you for being so wonderful. I hope that in 2019 I can meet you and make you many sweets... Thank you for your joy and your love
So sorry to hear this Melinda. 2018 would have been so difficult as each special occasion brings back all the memories of the time with a loved one. You have been a big part of my 2018 on Steemit and I truly appreciate you kindness and support. You are blessed with a wonderful heart, dear friend. ๐
I know that you understand how hard the anniversaries are. I feel really blessed to have gotten to know you this year! 2019 is going to be a great year for all of us!
Yes, definitely it is onward and upward. ๐
Sad to know about him, almost four years ago I had lost my Mom and diseases was same. I pray to God please keep away people from this disease.
Sad to know about him, almost four years ago I had lost my Mom and diseases was same. I pray to God please keep away people from this disease.
I am so sorry that your mom had cancer, too. It is a horrible disease. Thank you so much for your kind words.
It is hard my dear Melinda but you have to go on. He would have wanted you to do it. The loved ones who leave too soon are never really gone, they stay in our hearts. Plus, you are not alone, you have us, your Steemit gang. ๐
Thanks for your kind words Roxy! It has taken me a while, but most of the time I'm doing just fine these days. What a process grief is quite incredible. I'm glad to be feeling that I've moved through the worst part of it. But you know how it is, I will miss him forever.
I know, Melinda. The pain will always be there. But what else can we do apart from moving on? It is good you managed to surpass the worst and I think having the loved ones by your side really helped. Also, being active on Steemit had a therapeutic effect. ๐